‘You can not please everybody’ is a very popular quote. It simply means that no one satisfies everybody even though he or she tries hard. I myself agree with this quotation and there are really times that someone hate what I am doing. And there are also times that I hate what other people are doing.
The problem with men is they are very untidy. I hate a person who does not know how to put things in their proper order. For me, maintaining cleanliness and order is very important because it will mean that the person is organize in all his things as well as in his life. He knows how to handle different situations because he knows where to put things at the right timing and at the right place. A well organize person is also systematic with the persons around him. He knows how to keep a relationship in good condition. It also means that the person is disciplined with his actions and manners. So it is very important to be orderly with all your things because it will reflect your life and your relationships towards other people.
Another problem with men is they are irresponsible. Being responsible is one of the best characteristic that a person should have. It does not only pertain to big duties; it also applies to the simple actions you do in your life. You should be responsible with your actions and decisions. If you commit a mistake or do something wrong that hurts the people around you, you should be fearless enough to admit your mistake and be brave enough to face all its consequences. You should not pass these to other people and let them face what is intended for you. And if you made a decision, you should courageous enough to handle the outcome of your decision.
The problem with both men and women is being liars. I think all of us lie just to cover up our mistakes. But we should change this because if ever we did something wrong, we should be bold enough to face its consequences. It still goes back to being responsible.
Another problem with men and women is they are very insensitive to the feelings of the people around him. If you have something to say you should think first what other people will feel with your words. You should consider all your listeners’ emotions because you might hurt their feelings.
In our batch, I think that almost everybody tease me and make fun of me. I admit there are really times that I get hurt but I just hide it. I merely do not react and let them continue their jokes. But I think that there should be a limitation in their jokes. They should consider what I feel inside. They should not make the jokes extremely hurtful. Their jokes sometimes upset me and make me feel bad. I am also a person that can feel the pain. I am not somebody who can tolerate all the aches. I truly hope that there will really come a time that they could realize all the burdens that I am carrying.
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